告诫天下所有的女生！

1、千千万不要自作多情。

记住：他和你玩暧昧，就是不够喜欢你。男人真喜欢一个人，从眼睛就能看出来，他恨不得栓着你，怎么会忽冷忽热、忽进忽退？是，喜欢肯定有，总要他看着你顺眼才和你暧昧。所以，对暧昧你的男人一定不要多情，就算他常常拉你出来、天天短信、电话 。就算抱过、亲过，也依然不代表什么，什么都不是。不要相信这种男人说的好话。


2、静下来想想你未必就是真的喜欢他。

人都有惯性，比如一个人天天9点打电话给你，2个星期之后不打了，你肯定难受。这就是很正常的一个心理作用。所以，当你习惯了他天天绕在你周围，突然他又远离你的时候，你不甘心了吧，开始惦记他了吧。别相信你就真的那么喜欢他了，这只是一个惯性作用而已。别多想他，自己该干嘛干嘛，过几天习惯了就又没事了。然后他又热情起来了怎么办呢？你要是还没看透，还要入套我也没办法了。

3、如果真的喜欢上了他。

说白了，就算是特别喜欢他、天天无时无刻不想着他了，也要烂在心里，绝对绝对不让他知道。如果憋得慌，可以跟好朋友说，可以上网写出来发泄，但就是不要对他说。为什么？因为作人姿态一定要漂亮，就算你输了，也只有自己知道，他没有机会看低你。

4、想和别人玩暧昧？别，千万别，这种事有报应的。

好好的爱一个人多好呀！别干这缺德事。
经上所述：我觉得，女人，真的不要自作多情，男人真的爱你又怎么会对你不负呢？
真的爱你怎么会伤害你让你难过？真的爱你怎么不会好好疼你？
别玩暧昧， 暧昧不是女人能玩得起的， 别一时冲昏了头，让自己后悔！

一路走来，遇到过许多的人，碰到过许多的事，是好是坏的也罢，在不知不觉间都成了过去。
最近看到了许多人遇到的许多事，突然地想对所有人说，要对自己坦白，对身边的人多关怀，别让深爱你的人受伤害，因为许多人错过了就永远错过了，许多幸福溜走了就不会再来。
如果每个人都能在失去前学会珍惜，就会少了很多遗憾！

这个社会太精彩了，人的精神也很容易越轨，想对某些不小心精神移位的人说：
当某一天，你觉得某一个与你在路上擦肩而过的他、她比你现在拥有的他、她更让你心动，
快敲敲自己的脑袋，这个世界上再美的人都有，你能爱上几个？你能真的把他、她带回家吗？
如果不能，可别忘了回家的路！

要知道，有个人每天都在实实在在地为你付出呢，在拥有他、她之前，你不也是觉得他、她很美吗？
不要因为时间长了习惯了便忘了他、她的好，人不可能永远理智，
但是，人，真的不能永远只随着自己的性子，
时间长了，如果不懂得珍惜，思念是会过期的。

忘了你们自己的本性、
不要忘记、
男人女人是平等的、
男人可以给你温暖、
可以给你冷淡、
可以给你寂寞、
对他们来说、
你也许是个闲暇时解闷的对象、
也许是个寂寞时倾诉的对象、
也可能是不安分时发泄的对象，感情算什么、
可有可无、
现在什么是最重要的？

不要把自己的时间浪费在男人身上、
男人不过如此、
我只能说现在不是时候、
做自己该做的、
忠爱自己、

女人，看透一切，努力成为一个完美的人才是最重要的。

why???

★ why will like this?

★ why always like this?

★ why is me?

i dono what happen....

why got ppl can treat u so good then after that not care u anymore?like disappear in the world for few month or even longer than that...

why i always meet those kind of ppl?

if u is don1 friend with me then pls don do like this to me...is really hurt man~~

actually i no need u all like this treat me...no need u all specific to treat me good than not care me at all...this is not i want~~

i really hate those kind of ppl...at 1st treat u very good, always take care u...then disappear for a long time n din tell u any news then suddenly appear in front of u again~~

bull shit~~what kind of ppl is this?what kind of friend is this?

this izzit call '无事不登三宝殿' ? no do not goes to the temple? this kind of friend call them go die la...got need only will find u, not need that time lazy to care u at all~~~

this kind of ppl pls get out of my world...don disturb me~~i not need at all...THX!!!

gasonline cafe [23may]

GASONLINE cafe~~at berjaya times square, KL

We went in this cafe when v feel tired n thirst...so we decide to find a place sit down n drink~~

when v pass by, v saw the design is special n the logo is cute so v go in to have a rest...

gasonline cafe want logo~~a QUEEN!!!

dinosaur up there~~

*scare scare* hahaha

the type of sit place of gasonline cafe..

look like hawaii rite?gt coconut tree beside~~

another type of sit place~~abit japanese style cause is sit on the cushion want~~

the cushion with the logo of gasonline~~

the bar of gasonline~~

the table design...Egypt pic~~

Me...while waiting for d drink~~

yeonny~~

the menu of gasonline~~

[alison] mocha peppermint ice blended

my favorite MOCHA~~

is nice for me but yeonny say is bitter...

[yeonny] green apple+orange

[siewying] mango+orange

lolx...her favorite mango~~haha

siewying & yeonny

i take it while they drink~~hehe

This cafe just got waiter but no waitress...just have lengzai serve us oni~~then i ask siewying & yeonny, yeonny tell me cause d logo look like queen so just gt waiter oni lo...hahaha xD but i find out 1 more funny de thing...d cashier is guy but put d name is 婷婷...when i saw d receipt that time, i was OMG~~

Actually this cafe just special in design but the service is slow & bad...want order a thing oso need to wait vy long...then after order need to wait vy long for the thing come~~reali SWT!! lengzai gt wat use?give us bad service...dono they is lazy or is their type of services...suck~~

欢喜地茶餐厅 [23may]

欢喜地茶餐厅 [food&tea hong kong restaurant]

This restaurant is at sungei wang plaza, bukit bintang in KL...siew ying, yeonny n me go there for our lunch at 23may~~v sit at table no.21.....hehe ^^

We will choose this restaurant to have our lunch is because v was attract by the interior design of the restaurant...hehe ^^ the air-cond in this restaurant is very cold...cold like genting~~me & yeonny oso feel very cold but siewying not~~

siew ying

yeonny

yeonny & siewying

me~~

the list dat v order~~

[yeonny] fried rice with chicken XO sauce

is reali nice~~yum yum~~ *thumbs up*

[alison] buttered chicken diced with rice

erm...still ok lo~~just eat too much will feel geli cause of the butter sauce...

[siewying] deep fried chicken shanghai style

just like normal fried rice~~

[alsion] smoked ham & cheese focaccia

erm...this small pizza is nt bad bt only me alone eat finish it cause siewying & yeonny is full~~

[alison] almond beancurd & longan sweets...

is too sweet but quite nice~~

[siewying] summar love - mango deligh

nothing special just the name special...same like mango ice blended~~

[yeonny] longan with sea coconut

erm...just a type of herbal tea~~

Erm...dis meal cost us rm54.10 include with service charge 10%...is ok for a meal in KL, nt vy expensive...this restaurant have many food & drink attract me but i cnt order all cause i cnt finish all~~wish to have next time to try other food & drink....

TIRED + FUN trip~~hehe ^^

[21may]

i going up to genting at nite 11.30pm...

i was shock that v all oso sit nt same bus then i was alone in the bus, feel so boring~~then i was listen to song n sleep in the bus...when i reach genting adi 5am..lolx~~after v keep our luggage then v go walk n find something to eat~~after eat then they go casino bt me n siew ying go to sleep~~luckily got 1 of my friend still have place for me to sleep so i can sleep a while~~

[22may]

11am check in~~

after v put our luggage in the room then v went out to play outdoor~~is very cold today because jz after rain then v go out...v cold until freeze d although v have wear jacket but i wonder why my friend de bf can stand for it n din wear jacket~~PRO!!! i have mary brown n mcD for my meal at genting~~i reali dono wat to eat at there...

[23may]

down to KL~~

today v will check out at genting n down to kl by 11.45am..because pudu bus station was close then v go titiwangsa then v take monorail to bkt bintang~~when v reach bkt bintang, v search for hotel...finally v rent hotel malaysia cost us rm100 per nite~~when v get d room key n go in d room,v was SHOCK~~dis hotel is nt dat GOOD...v faster put luggage n go for SHOPPING~~

haha...from around 2pm v shop until at nite around 10pm bck hotel to take bath n rest~~then 12.30am v go out to c the nite of KL, bring by siewying's friend MAY, until around 3am oni bck hotel then i was having pillow talk with siewying until aroun 5am oni sleep~~wah!!! i can write a 福 to myself~~ hehe ^^

[24may]

down to KLANG for BAK KUT TEH...

KLANG BAK KUT TEH...here i come~~yummy yummy~~

6 of us was take KTM to klang and wait for san bring us to eat bak kut teh~~yum yum~~from KL sentral to klang by KTM need almost 1hour ler...on KTM dat time, my mind keep asking me why so long haven reach wan, my stomach was non-stop calling me~~

FINALLY around 12pm v reach klang d...then v go have bak kut teh for my breakfast+lunch~~ the bak kut teh reali yummy yummy~~i eat 1 n the half bowl of rice~~hehe ^^

after finish bak kut teh then v off to sunway pyramid for shopping n FULL HOUSE~~but for my main point to sunway pyramid is just for FULL HOUSE...i feel vy surprise that i meet suet lin in sunway pyramid, a friend who vy long din meet d...hehe ^^ me vy keng, jz hv bak kut teh around 12pm then i have another set lunch at full house around 4pm...WAH!! after sunway pyramid then v off to CHI CHEONG KAI walk walk~~around 10.30pm v went bck to hotel n rest~~After bath, 11.30pm like this v go out again n also bring by MAY...dis time v go to a place like pub in KL...there hv many pub in dat street, already midnight still vy jollification and hv many ppl haven sleep~~v went there for kap chai bt unlucky din have any leng chai for us to kap~~ *sad sad* at dat place i drink 1bottle of kampai plus n 2 cup of martell~~ before bck to hotel, v went to A LOR KAI to hv midnight snack-eat lok lok~~yum yum~~hehe ^^ today reali have a lot of fun...

[25may]

say BYE BYE to kl...

8.30am wake up n 9am check out from the hotel n went to bkt jalil to take bus bck taiping~~bye bye to kl, wish to have next time for such a nice holiday at there~~thx a lot to senior who bring me there n call me join them for such a nice holiday trip~~THX

my new hair style ^^

19may 2010...i have go for a hair cut with my fren yukomi ling ling~~v have go to wave cut~~it cost expensive n oso need to book oni can go~~i dono me izzit should nt go there for my hair cut...

i finally cut a style that i not brave to cut it last time...guess c wat style i cut? boy cut? short style? baby style? NO NO NO...all wrong...i cut want is left side short n right side long...i cnt believe i will go cut it...i still REMEMBER when i after form6, i go for a hair cut..d barber ask me can accept dis type of hair style ont and i say NO...but now......UNBELIEVABLE~~

this is my old hair style...this already is short hair, i still go cut shorter than this want~~

oh my....

my new hair style...how was it?

new hair style with wear spec n no spec...gt any different? big different rite??

is my new hair style nice? act i think dat is ok for me bt i reali vy dislike d moden side,vy funny ler...then behind is vy short, i cnt accept it~~some more my dad say nt nice~~ *sad sad*

all my fren saw me dat time oso gv me SHOCK eyes!!! gt 2 of my fren say cool~~

arg~~~should i just stay at home n don go out???OMG~~~

USA candy

USA CANDY~~~souvenirs from my cousin who just come bck from her study at usa...i was shock when she take so many candy come out when i go her house find her...hehe ^^ still let aunty say us big children...o(∩_∩)o...haha

5 boxs of CANDY~~

fruit shape of CANDY~~

Gobstopper...

greetings to you from willy WONKA himself~~feed your imagination~~wahaha

fish fish...Swedish Fish~~

Rainbow Nerds...so colourful...

craving something chewy? then try Runts~~

have fun with those candy~~my sis say " jie...wats wrong with u?candy also want to take photo meh!!! " n my bro ans "jie crazy liao..." haha...i think i reali crazy liao....cause me is 38...dis is wat my uni fren call....haha xD

korean food~~

1st time eat korean food~~
when reach bkt mertajam on 10may then shirin senior bring us [siewying senior n me] go jusco eat korean food d...yum yum~~

the design of the restaurant~~

Tableware of korean

chili sauce & oil to eat with the chicken

[siewying] plum ice blended..is nice~~

[mine] green mango ice blended..is too sweet~~

the side dishes...can refill wan o~~

korean's 煎饼...is quite nite~~

the main dishes..CHICKEN~~need to roast ourselves...

roast roast roast~~waiting to eat~~yum yum (",)

soup...for me,d taste nt so nice...

rice~~is yummy~~

we see it so little and scare can't full but when eat dat time is quite full...although is quite full but we also manage to finish it all~~hehe ^^ cant went to korea try korean food so we go jusco to have a try on korean food to full fill our dream ~~hehe ^^

如果你不是真心，就不要闯进我的世界

我可以
一个人吃饭；
一个人睡觉；
一个人逛街；
一个人游戏；
一个人上班；
一个人回家；
一个人发呆；
一个人思考；
一个人欣赏路过的风景；
一个人遗憾错过的精彩；
一个人读着别人的故事；
一个人打发无聊的时间；
一个人赶走寂寞的侵袭；
一个人抵挡北风的严寒；
一个人在跌倒后站起来拍拍身上的灰尘；
一个人在受伤后躲起来默默治疗心的创伤；
一个人在繁华的都市里找回迷失的自己；
一个人在残酷的现实里伪装保护着自己.........

所以

如果你不是真心，就不要轻易插足我的旅程，我很容易感动， 很容易满足，也许你不经意对我的好我都会一直记得，也许会因 为你不在意的举动会伤心很久；

如果你不是真心，就不要轻易进入我的世界，我不会坚强，不 会防备，你说的每句话我都会相信，我能给你的就是绝对的信 任；

如果你不是真心，就不要轻易跨进我的国度，我会固执，会小 气，
我很珍惜每个进来的人，就算碰得头破血流我也不会轻易放手， 我不想留给自己太多遗憾...... 等待那个人我投入的会是我全部的真心

SHOCK!!!

I didn't think that i still have market price wor~~me already single for so long time d, suddenly got a guy tell me that he want chase me but we already got few month didn't contact d...all happen in suddenly, let me get shock~~but the reason is that guy small than me 2years o~~that mean this relationship is "姐弟恋"...

"姐弟恋"...i always say it won happen to me but didn't think that today will happen~~
my friend say :-
★恋爱不论年龄及辈分~只有你情我愿
★只要真心相爱，年龄不是问题。。。爱情不分贵贱，幸福就在你手里

After i think, actually "姐弟恋" nothing special only, just like normal couple also can be very happy and very sweet..as long as they love each other then is ok d~~Wish all my fren who have couple want then always oso so sweet sweet n happy, those who din have want then will meet their another part soon~~

如果你喜欢上了一个无法永远在一起的人

如果你喜欢上了一个无法永远在一起的人


如果你喜欢上了一个无法永远在一起的人，请珍惜每一次和他 在一起的机会，每一次和他说话的机会，每一次对他微笑的机 会，因为这可能成为你脑海中不多的记忆财富。


如果你喜欢上了一个无法永远在一起的人，请保持快乐的心态， 每一次见到他或者与他交谈的时候都能让他感受到你的快乐，因 为看到心爱的人开心是件很幸福的事。


如果你喜欢上了一个无法永远在一起的人，请试图让自己越来 越漂亮，只有懂得爱自己的女孩才能赢得他人的爱。谁都希望心 爱的人能看到自己美好的一面。

如果你喜欢上了一个无法永远在一起的人，尽量帮他，聆听他 内心的声音，帮他分担，不要期望太多。这个世界太过公平， 是你的永远是你的，谁也抢不走。哪怕是拥有他的心就够了！！

如果你喜欢上了一个无法永远在一起的人，请别一开始就付出 太多，事先知道结局的人是最理智的。如果你倾尽所有，结 果往往会一无所有。（可是如果深爱了，又怎能不付出的太多 呢？）

如果你喜欢上了一个无法永远在一起的人，请别对双方苛求太 多，太多的因素会让你们分离，时间、人、空间，如果你不 想让最后的回忆变得不美好的话。那么就都要给彼此一些空间， 让他感觉你是他的幸福 而不是负担！

如果你喜欢上了一个无法永远在一起的人，离开的时候千万不 要哭（估计很难做到），如果他也对你动过心，你们都会把 对方的名字雕刻成辗转时空中的金子。每天都会想起彼此的脸！


如果你喜欢上了一个无法永远在一起的人，保存着你们在一起 的每一分每一秒的片断，因为时间的洪水会很无情，到了最后剩 下的也许只会是零星的碎片。


请记得曾经在一起时的那段岁月~~!! 因为珍惜今天~~!!
它就是明天最美的回忆~~!!

my first time ^^

i having many 1st time in this sem break~~1st time sit bus down bkt mertajam, 1st time go find senior travel n play, 1st time eat korea food, 1st time eat nando's, 1st time go serdang eat 炒粥, 1st time sit bus bck taiping from lcct, 1st time drive out at nite after 10pm, 1st time write blog~~got happy or unhappy, lucky or unlucky things happen..such as i get a mini hp netbook as free gift, titas lecturer lost my mid-term exam paper...all this thing is my good experience and memory...